Card for December 31, 2014 - January 1, 2015

Happy "Early" New Year's to you all!!  For some it may already be that for you.  Here's it's not yet.  I love this card and perfect timing in my opinion.  Some people fear change.. others embrace.  Change is not bad, but it will shake you up.  I know my house lately has been shaken up in a good way, so I'm hopeful by doing that -- getting rid of the old will bring the new to me.

This card basically says that.  The changes coming into your life is helping you leave behind that which no longer serves you.  All spiritual connections that have kept you in this energy have been fulfilled and it's time to move on to the next part of your life.  New opportunities will be coming your way to help you learn and expand and create new relationships.  The key to all this change is breathing and keeping positive and affirming and being grateful for the new opportunities and people.  Don't think you're not worthy.. because you ARE!

Blessings to all as we usher in a NEW and WONDROUS year.  THANKING our previous year for all LESSONS and BLESSINGS we received during it.

Card for December 30, 2014

First I want to apologize for not posting things lately.  My family went out of town for the holidays to visit family and I had to work.  Not only that I was busy cleaning our very dirty house.  I also received some orders for my Energy Pictures (still on sale for only $10!) http://www.healingsbyharmonize.com/store/p8/Energy_Pictures.html   So been very busy time.  Hopefully now that the house is cleaned up and work is still steady, I'll get back to working on doing daily pulls again.

“Sad Embrace” - You may be entering into a period where loss is a theme. Perhaps you’re having to let go of a long-cherished dream. If so, take heart, for this ending may have been for your highest good. A better and more powerful dream will be realized in your life if you can accept the loss.

I thought it very interesting this card came up today.  We're getting closer to the end of the year and the beginning of a new one.  Also, since I just pitched a bunch of stuff from my house, I had my moment of sadness when I took apart  my daughter's toddler bed and set it out free for someone to have.  Means she's growing up.

The card means to me to take the time and grieve for what's been loss, but don't dwell there.  Take a moment to remember the good times, but know that possibly it's really time to move on.  Look forward with the new with new possibilities. 

I know many people pray and ask for things they think they need.  Then they get an opportunity or something that shows up unexpected that is actually better than what they thought they needed.  Remember, we are linear creatures and we can only see so far, where as God/Universe/Energy is not bound by time and can see further in to that potential future and bring you what you really need.

So take the time, get the grief out, because it's important to express these emotions.  If you don't do that you get into what I call the loop of depression.  Crying is not a bad thing and getting it out helps refresh your soul.

Wishing Everyone..

All those annoying well wishing things.. Happy Holidays, Kwanza, Christmas, Hanukkah...

But in essence what I'd really like to do is wish you a peaceful holiday.  Taking the time to be with family and enjoy them.  As we've seen that can change in an instant.  Try spreading the peace to others and maybe it will just take finally and we'll see a change where humankind can be kind to one another.

That is my sincere wish that we act with kindness and decency for a change.  I worry about what might happen if we don't start cleaning up our act.  I felt a major energy shift just happen a few days ago.  I feel new lightworkers are awakening and I can only hope that it will help raise the vibration for not only the earth but humanity.

So peace be with you this holiday season -- no matter which one you celebrate. :)

Card for Thursday, December 18, 2014

I apologize for not doing a card since Monday.  It's been crazy hectic at work and and home!  Not sure it's going to any better any time soon, but know that I will post when I can.

Appreciation and gratitude are important components to spiritual development. There is beauty in those who find the value in everyone and everything, and it is also important to see our own efforts, and to acknowledge our own contributions and progress.

Love blossoms with appreciation, and intimacy grows deeper when we know we are seen and valued. Our hearts never tire of receiving appreciation. Appreciation has the ability to turn sour situations around, to uplift us, to empower us, and to inspire us into positive action.

Appreciation can be expressed in many different ways - a hug, a special gift, verbal acknowledgement, saying thank you…etc. Appreciation is greatly enhanced when we give others specific reasons for our gratitude. It is nice to hear, “thank you for being my friend”, but hearing the specific reason like, “I really felt cared about when you took the time today to listen to my problem”, can add richness to the other person’s life, and give them an understanding of what their unique contributions are. Open your eyes to see one another in a fresh light, and notice the abundance and contributions around you.

The card Appreciation reminds you of the importance of making statements of appreciation and to share your appreciation in some visible way. Each small act or words of gratitude, re-ignites the warmth in our hearts and in the hearts of others. People who show appreciation enhance their relationships and create a world that is continually rewarding!

I love this card.  Appreciation truly changes the energy around you.  You could start off the day badly.. but you can turn it around by breathing and then start being grateful.  So you stub your big toe, so you after you get done saying "ouch" stop and think at least it's not broken.  I can move on with my day knowing that the bad just came out and I'm appreciative of the good to come.

I pulled another card as well and the message was Drink Water.  Eat foods that contain water like veggies and fruits.  This is an important message - especially right now.  It's the season of all the "goodies".  I believe still having them, but in moderation.  (that way you can have all year ;)  ) 

So be appreciative that we have food to eat and drink water to help keep your body flushed and help with your energy -- it appears we're going to need it :D

Card for Monday, December 15, 2014

Your Card - “You Are Healed” - Calendula/Pot Marigold: The healing you’ve prayed for is on its way.

Happy flowers :)  I love this card.  I'm sure there's something your life that has been troubling you.  Know that help is on it's way.  What you have to remember though is that it may not be exactly what you had planned or "wanted".  Often the help that comes to us may not seem like help until after you have some space from it.  This is because we often try and control everything in our lives.  What we think is the answer may not be the best answer for us.  Have faith that what is coming is the best answer and help for you.

Just a note here, I will put up cards when I can, but with the holidays coming, it's getting harder to do so as I'm getting orders of my "psychic art" put together for Christmas gifts.  Plus I work full time and have a house to attend to.  So if you check and there's not one.  It's just probably because I haven't had time to do it.

If you want to check out my psychic art/energy pictures that seem to be a good deal right now go here:  http://www.healingsbyharmonize.com/store/c4/Other_Products.html

Have a blessed day!

Card for Thursday, December 11, 2014

Even thought I drew cards for the rest of the week, they told me to draw one for today as well because it goes with the other cards.

Accountability is responsibility.

This card suggests that it is time to stop blaming or judging others, and take responsibility for your life.

Be accountable for your choices, your attitude, your perspective, your intentions, your feelings, your actions and your experiences.

Blame and judgement can disconnect you from your feelings, from the situation, and from others. It may also keep you from seeing the truth of the matter and from taking the next step forward.

Every experience that you perceive as negative can be used to make positive changes.

Being accountable will restore your connection to the truth, to others, and to yourself. Begin to feel the freedom and empowerment that comes from the knowledge that you create your own experiences. You are responsible for your life. Accountability will connect you with your true power so you can design and create a life that is successful and happy!

The cards for the rest of the week

I felt there was already a lot of text in that one post, so I decided to create a second one to talk about the cards that were pulled.

I'll be the first to admit, I don't always get time to do the cards like I wish I could.  Between kids, long commute and full-time job and then going home and doing the home things gets to be very busy.

But driving in this morning I was prompted to draw not just 1 card but 3.  And even though I put it for the rest of this week, I have a feeling these cards are going to be pieces throughout the rest of this month into the new year.

This time of year it's very easy to feel shattered, whether you're with people or not.  In fact this time period is one of the highest for suicides.  And I understand that point.  I've been there myself.  Where you just get into this deep depression where you feel nothing.  It's not sad, it's just nothing.  But it doesn't have to be that way.

I love the 2nd card - Magical Intervention.  First off, who doesn't love true magic (miracles).  Haven't you ever been in a position where you thought you were at your ends rope and then something comes through?  Well this card is all about you've been asking and asking and things are going to open up -- probably in ways you don't even imagine.  Too often we're held back by our lack of imagining.  We think it has to come a certain way, but when we release that hold, the flow comes back and you'll still get a similar result (usually better) because you let go of the 'how"

The 3rd card is great as well - Freedom.  The ability to be happy in the choices you make and know you have the freedom to do so.  Allowing others to have the freedom.  Maybe your freedom is letting go of those individuals that no longer have the same life path as you.  Maybe it something completely physical like bills that now have been taken care of.  Regardless know that you have been working toward this for a long time.  Enjoy it.

Cards for Wed-Sun, December 10-14, 2014

Feeling shattered is not grief or sadness from loss. It is a feeling of devastation or angst from misperceiving the true reality of a situation, and from not envisioning the abundance that is available to you.

Have you lost (or are you about to lose) something or someone, and your heart feels irreparably broken? Or do you feel angst because something or someone that is lost seems irreplaceable, and you think that life will never be good again?

The situation you are in - that is overwhelming you with pain - has probably triggered either a great loss from the past or an intense fear about something in the future - or both. This means that the situation you are in only plays a part of the devastation you are feeling. In reality, it is only your perception of the situation that is causing the pain or it’s because you are thinking about the past or future – not the present moment. It is likely that the thing or person you lost (or may lose) probably isn’t as important as you believe, or it is not as fulfilling as it once was - as we don’t lose what we are truly are meant to keep.

The pain may also be caused because you refuse to accept the ending or the loss of this special part of your life. You may even act desperate to try and get it back - believing this will end your pain. Or you may buckle under the weight of the pain and lay helpless on the ground. Refusing to accept ‘what is’, prevents you from dealing with change and the benefit the change is providing. And buckling keeps you from moving forward towards your true joy and purpose in life. Take all the time your heart needs to accept this loss, and release your feelings about the past or the future. This is better than avoiding it, denying it or trying to tough it out.

Now that you have accepted and released your feelings, begin to understand the benefits of feeling shattered. Start by shattering your fixed perception of your situation. Let go of limiting thoughts. Awaken to your soul’s deep needs, and bring awareness to the abundance of possibilities, and to what you truly desire. The ache for the person or thing you have lost is telling you how important this aspect of life is to you. Having this person or thing in your life may or may not be needed, but know those wonderful feelings that it created will definitely come again because this situation has woken a need in your heart that is supposed to get filled. Maybe not in the same manner, but filled in some other way or by someone else. Without doubt, your next experience will be fuller, richer and better than you can imagine!

A Mystical Intervention is coming into your life to help you move forward with grace and ease.

There is an innate mechanism within you which has the desire for every living thing to evolve into the best it can be. When it is time to expand or make a shift in awareness, this mechanism triggers an ‘Intervention’ in order for you to live the best life possible. An intervention can be a feeling, a thought, an idea, an experience, or moments of synchronicity or unusual coincidences. An intervention awakens your innate desire for you to reach your full potential. Your ‘Mystic’ is the divine energy in your soul and in the cosmos that connects everything. The Mystic and an Intervention work together to ignite the desire for change and to create opportunities that enable you to evolve. The old biblical saying, ‘God helps those who help themselves’, is similar to, ‘you (your inner mechanisms that create an intervention) and the mystic working together’.

When your inner mechanisms for growth are not currently ‘updated with new parts’, (i.e.; therapy, personal growth workshops, play, meditation, living your purpose, new understandings and perspectives etc…), your means of ‘intervention’ will typically be a force in your life that is difficult, harsh or damaging. Relationship break ups are devastating, work is hard, accidents and illnesses occur – these difficult things happen in order for your need to wake up so you can reach your full potential. All these difficulties are really only your ‘outdated’ mechanics ‘intervening’ to make you change your life for the better.

Aren’t you tired of all the struggles and pain? Begin by updating your inner mechanisms and welcome the divine mystic energy. Welcome a gentle loving mystical intervention, and let it show you the way. Start by listening to your feelings and your soul’s longings, and being alert to the synchronicities that point you in the right direction. This will help lead you to deeper insights, truth, true happiness, success, peace, love and miracles. When you realize you are connected with the Mystic, and you take action to update your mechanisms for growth, you will move forward at an accelerated pace. This energy can accomplish things overnight that would have taken months or years. As you start tapping into the mystic as a way of life, things will begin to move forward with ease and elegance. You will no longer have the stress of trying to figure out how to make your dreams come true because you are connected with the Mystic that communes with all that exists. This divine energy will allow you to rest, and make your path easy and smooth. The Mystic is lining things up so that you are magically inspired on what step to take next in your life. These steps will lead you towards the dreams of your heart and soul!

The card Freedom speaks of release.

It is a time of unrestricted dreams and opportunities.

You are filled with ease and joy, and you have the freedom to create a life designed by your hearts longings!

You see freedom as the truth that all of life is a blessing or an opportunity for transformation.

You no longer feel trapped, stressed, worried, miserable or burdened. You are free! You accept yourself, your situation and everyone involved.

You feel your emotions fully, and you open up to explore new ideas, different choices, perspectives, attitudes and new ways of thinking.

You allow yourself to experience freedom, and give others their freedom. You do not disconnect from others with defiant independence, but instead you create the joy of freedom in your soul that attracts other ‘light-filled’ mates to you.

Your freedom is based on truth - truth that separates illusion from reality. The truth can be uncomfortable because it cuts through denial, but it will save you from further disillusionment and pain in the future. At the highest level - anything that is not joyful is not the truth. Truth frees you from the dark and brings in light and true fulfillment.

The card Freedom says that your difficulties are all falling away so you can experience happiness, clarity and growth. Feel the freedom of living your life the way you really want to and to share it with the people you truly feel joyful to be with!

Card for Tuesday, December 9, 2014

We all need to nurture and be nurtured - whether or not we give ourselves permission. The card Nurture refers to nurturing the emotional, physical, social and spiritual self.

Socially

We are social creatures, so it is important to build and nurture our relationships. Take the time to go for lunch with a friend, to go on a date with your beloved, or a weekend away with the girls/guys.

Spiritually

Nurture your spiritual-self as well. Journal, meditate, take time alone in nature, or go to a retreat to journey into your spiritual-self.

Physically

Touch is an important aspect of nurturing – in both giving and receiving. It is a way of communicating affection, passion, care, support and love. We all like to be touched in varying ways and amounts. Therefore when touching another, it is best to be mindful of how, when and where the other person likes to be touched. Be sensitive to the other person’s level of comfort. And for others to truly feel nurtured, give without expectations of reciprocation.

Eating healthy, movement, hygiene, sleep and relaxation are other aspects of nurturing your body. You may have pulled this card to remind yourself to nurture these aspects of your physical being. Heal any physical wounds that you may have been ignoring.
Also you may have forgotten to give your mind the necessary nourishment of intellectual exercise. Remember to find ways to stimulate your brain. Take a class, read a challenging book, write an article for your local paper..etc.

Emotionally

Nurturing your emotional body includes honoring your childlike joy and wonder, along with accepting and your hurt, fears and frustrations. Sit quietly and connect with how you truly feel inside, giving yourself full compassion and support. Feel the all parts of yourself that still need love, understanding and a sense of joy and happiness. Share your feelings with a trusted friend or partner without blame or judgement. Blaming someone for negative feelings and trying to get them to fix it only distracts you from recognizing the opportunity to expand peace, love, learning and happiness. Having someone listen can be truly nurturing. Emotional health comes when someone close to you witnesses your tears of joy and your challenges, and listens with genuine interest and compassion - without judgement or advice. You can only cultivate nurturing in your relationships when you are fully capable of feeling and accepting your feelings. If you are not comfortable with exuberant joy or fear, it is very hard to accept these emotions in others.

It is time to nurture. When you nurture your whole self and others, you will improve your health, happiness, and your relationships!

Card for Monday, December 8, 2014

Relationships are at the center of our lives - and connecting with others in harmony removes feelings of separation, loneliness and opposition.

Harmony isn’t about two people who feel, think and see things the same. Like a song, a harmony is a contrasting note with the melody, and together they complement one another. And just as a song’s richness can be greatly enhanced by adding a harmony, our relationships can be enriched as well by joining others in harmony. When we join with others in harmony we share the load and we blend our abilities to create something that none of us could achieve alone.

Harmony in relationships is created, in part, by resolving issues and conflicts. Because we all differ in values, beliefs, needs and desires - conflict (contrast) will naturally arise. A lack of contrast does not mean there is harmony. Unexpressed and unresolved issues can deaden a relationship or even dismantle it. Withdrawing, avoiding contrast and letting issues slide, will not create harmony. We may hold back our thoughts, shut down, or pretend that everything’s fine, because we are afraid of hurt, change or disappointments. When we withhold contrasting energy, we seem to deaden our relationships, and the all colors of our world blend together in exchange for a muddy one. Revealing our inner-self is a vital part of authentic relating.

The opposite of withholding, are the people who want to ‘win the war’. For them there is no holding back. They carry grudges, thoughts of revenge, and a deep desire to be right. They attempt to get the other person to see things their way or to do what they want. They fail to realize that both perspectives and desires need to be integrated for a win/win solution.

Perhaps you have drawn the Harmonious Connection card because you need to look at how you connect with yourself. You can just as easily create feelings of deadness by ignoring certain feelings or desires that you have. Or...you can have an inner war as you struggle with opposing needs and desires where you let only one of them win.

Are there any feelings of deadness or tension in yourself or your relationships? The card Harmonious Connections asks you to join in harmony with yourself or another. Take the time to express what has been withheld. Use contrasts to grow and bring color and life back. Open your mind and integrate both sides of a conflict so both sides and both partners win. Resolving issues brings peace, which generates joy, love, inspiration and abundance!

Card for Thursday, December 4, 2014

Appreciation and gratitude are important components to spiritual development. There is beauty in those who find the value in everyone and everything, and it is also important to see our own efforts, and to acknowledge our own contributions and progress.

Love blossoms with appreciation, and intimacy grows deeper when we know we are seen and valued. Our hearts never tire of receiving appreciation. Appreciation has the ability to turn sour situations around, to uplift us, to empower us, and to inspire us into positive action.

Appreciation can be expressed in many different ways - a hug, a special gift, verbal acknowledgement, saying thank you…etc. Appreciation is greatly enhanced when we give others specific reasons for our gratitude. It is nice to hear, “thank you for being my friend”, but hearing the specific reason like, “I really felt cared about when you took the time today to listen to my problem”, can add richness to the other person’s life, and give them an understanding of what their unique contributions are. Open your eyes to see one another in a fresh light, and notice the abundance and contributions around you.

The card Appreciation reminds you of the importance of making statements of appreciation and to share your appreciation in some visible way. Each small act or words of gratitude, re-ignites the warmth in our hearts and in the hearts of others. People who show appreciation enhance their relationships and create a world that is continually rewarding!

It's actually funny that this card came up today.  I was just thinking I have to be very appreciative of the things I do have in my life.  I know many people do the "thankfulness" for November, but they end up stopping at the end of the month.  Why not continue on with it?  What can it hurt?  What it can do is keep you in a more positive attitude especially during this "stressful" month.  And if you keep going for every month, your energy will change and good things will continue to happen for you.  So give it a shot.  What are you appreciative of today.. tomorrow.. the next day...?

Me today it's my friends.  Even though I don't always get to talk with them on a daily basis, the ones I do have I know will be there for me when it's needed.

Card for Tuesday, November 25, 2014

“Wide Open” - All manner of opportunities are presented to you at this time. The Wide Open card is a signal that you’re able to truly manifest your dreams and that your goals are in sight. Don’t remain small and contracted. Instead, expand your horizons beyond what you believe to be your limitations. You have a unique voice that needs to be expressed in the world. The universe is supportive of new ideas and approaches at this time, so speak up and speak out.

I must admit, I have been doing this more often.  I'm starting to be more open about my gifts.  I'm constantly thinking of new ideas and things to pursue.  For me it's not a matter of the ideas, it's getting them done.  I just don't seem to have as much time as I would like to get them finished.  Then of course you have when I think they're done, something went wrong and now they're not.  So I need to really figure out what happened so I can get them fixed.

It's nice to see this card where the person is looking toward the stars, things and dreams they have .. seeing a butterfly.. arms back trusting that they won't fall. 

How many of us have actually tried to do that.?  Scared as we might be, just move forward with a plan?  If you have done that how did it turn out? If you haven't, why did you not do it?

The nice thing about thsi card is it's time to move on with your plans the universe is supporting you on this quest.

Card for Monday, November 24, 2014

Meaninglessness is a state that isn’t talked about much in our society, yet it is a dreadful and common experience for many. Meaninglessness is being in a struggle with life and being here on earth. The questions: ‘What are we doing here?’ – ‘What's life all about?’ – ‘What's the point?’ – and - ‘Why am I living?’......those questions can be disparaging when you think you need the answers. And sometimes those questions actually create our state of meaninglessness because we think having an answer to those questions will bring us meaning and happiness.

Meaninglessness may be the worst state to be in. You aren’t faced with a challenge to meet or even depression to overcome. You aren’t sad, confused or lost. Meaninglessness differs from depression, in that it is more about having a spiritual crisis, rather than not caring about anything. Depression is having thoughts like, ‘it doesn’t matter what I do or how I think, life isn’t worth it’. Meaninglessness is a place of dwelling on thoughts like, “why should I even care if I care? And even if I do care, what is the point? What’s it all for anyway”. It isn’t about giving up, because you feel that even dying won’t offer any relief.

Experiencing meaninglessness can happen because part of what has given your life meaning has died and you are now disappointed with life. This place you are in, is now an empty place where you return to the bigger picture of, “what’s this ‘living business’ all about anyway?” And by contemplating these kinds of questions and thinking that life has no meaning, you don’t have to move forward, you don’t have to engage in life, and you never have to be disappointed in living again.

Yet the experience of meaninglessness can be helpful. You can contemplate on seeing the ‘bigger picture of your life’ as you think about where you’ve been, why you choose what you’ve experienced, and what has made your life worthwhile. These questions are important to reflect on occasionally so you can adjust and improve your life. But being in a place of meaninglessness is thinking that even those questions are pointless. Meaninglessness is getting ‘hung up’ on meaninglessness.

This place of meaninglessness can be a great opportunity for you. This state is often experienced right before a major life breakthrough. Meaninglessness can be one of the places where you make some of your greatest moves forward emotionally, intellectually, spiritually, or in your physical life.

There are ways to move out of this realm of meaninglessness, and reconnect with yourself and with life again.

You could; step through the meaninglessness by asking divine light to move you out of this state,

take time in quiet to contemplate what has given your life meaning in the past, and ask what will give it meaning again, try doing energy work like Reiki or EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique), do a vision quest, etc.

discuss and come to understand what the ‘disappointment’ was that might have caused your state of meaninglessness, and learn more about what your soul’s true needs and longings are.

take your focus off your state by offering help to others. Experiment with things outside your comfort zone: go on a volunteer vacation - or try building homes with an organization like Habitat for Humanity.

(Of course you may be in so much meaninglessness that you tell yourself that even these acts are meaningless!)
You now have the choice to stay in this realm or move into life again!  It is really a mind and energy shift…if you need or want it.

Cards for Friday, Saturday & Sunday November 21-23, 2014

“Page of Fire” - SITUATIONS: An exciting new opportunity comes your way! The angels guide you to whole-heartedly embrace this new endeavor. It may seem like a challenge, but it’s one you’re ready for. Dazzle people with your originality and ingenuity! PEOPLE: A youth who’s outgoing, creative, and passionate about life. Someone who enthusiastically seeks out new experiences and can make things happen.

“World Energy” - Agapanthus: The earth is going through a transition of energy, and your sensitive body is feeling it. You’re not alone; accept the help of others.

 “Trust” - In response to your question, the Romance Angels ask you to trust that everything is exactly as it needs to be. Do not add fear to the situation, which will only create drama and negativity. Instead, the angels ask you to release your worries to them.


Interesting cards for this weekend.  I would have spaced them out and done a card for each day, but my weekends are never usually clear enough to get online to do the cards - especially now trying to get ready for the holiday.

So I like to think these cards all work together.  There's new energy in the air and it's affecting us .. all of us and sometimes the electronics.  But this energy is changing things and that's a good thing.  May not seem like it at the time, but it is.  There is going to be a new opportunity coming up for you and even though it may look challenging, this card is telling you to go for it.  It's also telling you to ask for help and know that help is there.  Help may not have been there before, but to trust that it will be this time.

My sister and I were discussing this new energy.  We both have been finding it a bit more difficult to ground and shield.  Extra effort has been needed.  I have found spending a little more time in nature has helped me.  Mainly because it's the earth's energy that is shifting and being connected to the earth - even for a short amount of time is helping me become one with the energy again.

So take a moment out of your weekend and believe in miracles :)

Card for Wednesday, November 19, 2014

A Mystical Intervention is coming into your life to help you move forward with grace and ease.

There is an innate mechanism within you which has the desire for every living thing to evolve into the best it can be. When it is time to expand or make a shift in awareness, this mechanism triggers an ‘Intervention’ in order for you to live the best life possible. An intervention can be a feeling, a thought, an idea, an experience, or moments of synchronicity or unusual coincidences. An intervention awakens your innate desire for you to reach your full potential. Your ‘Mystic’ is the divine energy in your soul and in the cosmos that connects everything. The Mystic and an Intervention work together to ignite the desire for change and to create opportunities that enable you to evolve. The old biblical saying, ‘God helps those who help themselves’, is similar to, ‘you (your inner mechanisms that create an intervention) and the mystic working together’.

When your inner mechanisms for growth are not currently ‘updated with new parts’, (i.e.; therapy, personal growth workshops, play, meditation, living your purpose, new understandings and perspectives etc…), your means of ‘intervention’ will typically be a force in your life that is difficult, harsh or damaging. Relationship break ups are devastating, work is hard, accidents and illnesses occur – these difficult things happen in order for your need to wake up so you can reach your full potential. All these difficulties are really only your ‘outdated’ mechanics ‘intervening’ to make you change your life for the better.

Aren’t you tired of all the struggles and pain? Begin by updating your inner mechanisms and welcome the divine mystic energy. Welcome a gentle loving mystical intervention, and let it show you the way. Start by listening to your feelings and your soul’s longings, and being alert to the synchronicities that point you in the right direction. This will help lead you to deeper insights, truth, true happiness, success, peace, love and miracles. When you realize you are connected with the Mystic, and you take action to update your mechanisms for growth, you will move forward at an accelerated pace. This energy can accomplish things overnight that would have taken months or years. As you start tapping into the mystic as a way of life, things will begin to move forward with ease and elegance. You will no longer have the stress of trying to figure out how to make your dreams come true because you are connected with the Mystic that communes with all that exists. This divine energy will allow you to rest, and make your path easy and smooth. The Mystic is lining things up so that you are magically inspired on what step to take next in your life. These steps will lead you towards the dreams of your heart and soul!

Card for Tuesday, November 18, 2014

Whatever has been consuming your time and energy is coming to an end, and a whole new level of success has, or is about to come into your life. Because of your willingness to accept the recent challenges of life, you can start celebrating your success!

Your success is also a gift for others - for when you succeed you light up the ‘path of inspiration’ so others can follow.

Success isn’t just about accomplishing something; it’s also your attitude in how you view yourself and your life. Success is viewing yourself in a positive way no matter what the outcome of your plans or goals. It is celebrating the risks you took, and the striving and the efforts you made. Success, in part, is knowing that - all that you are and all that you do - is always enough.

Life is full of endings and new beginnings, and we can sometimes feel sad or empty when things come to completion. Give yourself time and space to release these feelings and replace them with the wonder and enthusiasm of what’s to come.

If you have just accomplished something, it is time to reap the reward! Too often when we reach our goal or task we brush by the celebration because there is always the next thing on our list to accomplish. Take the time to rest a bit and enjoy your success. Really acknowledge your success. Treat yourself in some special way - celebrate and share it with others!

Yet remember not to rest on your laurels too long, this is not your final destination. The journey isn't over yet. There are worlds upon worlds still waiting to be explored!

Card for Monday, November 17, 2014

Carefree is living life as it was meant to be… easy, carefree and playful!

It is time to put away your problems for a while. Enjoy life and have some fun! Drop your ‘self-importance’, and end your need to take things so seriously. Humor and playfulness will release you from the heaviness of your situation.

Celebrate the joy of being alive! Open your arms to welcome the youthful energy that is filled with wonder, joy and curiosity. Open yourself to the fun that feeds your soul. Let it revive and refresh you!

Relax your mind, body and soul. Smile, and see the humor in your situation. Rise above the issue that has been weighing you down, and imagine yourself flying free in the open sky above.

Imagine if millions of people around the world were laughing, singing, creating, loving, celebrating, dancing and playing. There wouldn’t be time for problems, hurt, revenge, resentments or worry… if we all participated!

Card for Friday, November 14, 2014

Your Card - “You Are Healed” - Calendula/Pot Marigold: The healing you’ve prayed for is on its way.

Interesting that this card came up today.  Because I had an interesting experience last night driving home.  It took awhile due to the weather.  So I've been working on trying to heal me not being able to receive.  I'm a great giver, but it's often said those that give a lot are terrible in receiving.  For me, that's true.  So I was driving and all of a sudden I was in the Akashic Records.  I was asking how could I let go of old issues, past life issues etc, and I got lead to the healing chamber.  I was able to heal and let go, cut cords etc not only for myself but for my sister as well.  She even commented later that she felt this burst of energy that made her feel good and didn't know why (until I told her).

How many of you are holding grudges?  Did you know holding those grudges hurt you?  What about feeling guilty for something?  All those "bad" emotions keep you in that moment and you relive it over and over.  It's time to let go and let God.  So you made a mistake.  We all do.  Don't wallow in that negativity, learn from it, forgive yourself and move on.  Same with the grudges, let go of them, forgive the person and move on.  How you move on is up to you as long as you truly forgive and heal from those negative emotions.

If you are still having issues with the healing, this card is telling you that someone will be coming into  your life that will help you through this process.   The healing will be within at the soul level which will strengthen you from the inside out.  Which is a good thing.  It will give you the core needed to move on and be happy and happier in your life.

Card for Thursday, November 13, 2014

Your Card - “You Are Lovable” - Camellia: Love who you are, as you’re created perfectly. Everything about your true self is beautiful.

Interesting that this card came up today.  I have been working on this as well as helping others with this message.

What is that message you ask?  Well it's all about loving yourself.  Too often we are "ok" with ourselves and then get involved with someone who turns out to be the wrong person.  Can I get an Amen? LOL  Or worse, you change for them.  Into something  you don't like and don't know.  Or you try and change that other person to "fit" you.

The truth of the matter is we have to be happy with us and who we are before anyone else can be. 

You've probably heard the term, quick looking for love and it'll find you?  Well it truly works.  And love can mean not only a "relationship" type love, but also new friends that fill your life with joy and eventually become your support system.  So be true to who you are and be happy with your own company.  You'll then draw all the people you need into your life.

I love the colors int his card, all the shades of pink.. which to me represent the various components of love.  Along with yellow which is happiness.  And isn't that the goal for most people?  Would you just love to wake up with joy in your heart and be that way most days? Or even every day?

Now a good way to start working on loving yourself is stand in a mirror look at yourself and don't self-criticize like you usually do, see what is good and loving about you.  And then say to yourself.. I love "That" about me.  It is a great feature to have.  Then say something as to why that's a great feature.

For example, I LOVE my eyes.  I think they are one of my best features.  They are truly the window to my soul and my soul is lovely and everyone is drawn to it through my eyes.  I am happy with my eyes and wouldn't change anything about them.

Know that you are worth loving... YOU.

Card for Wednesday, November 12, 2014

Your Card - “Ten of Gabriel” - It’s important to live a balanced life! Your determination and sheer will to accomplish the task before you is very admirable, but it’s taking a large toll on you. Ask for help from others. Delegate responsibility to those who can do a good job. Reduce stress for the sake of protecting your health.

Been working hard lately?  Trying to get many things done in a little amount of time?  I know we're getting into the holiday season and things always seem to rush at you trying to get things done.  But it's OK to ask for help.  In fact drawing this card the angels are suggesting you do it.  You are doing too much.  It's OK to ask for help, it's OK to take a break.  If you continue on this path there will be nothing left.  I know from experience that the body will take drastic measures to make sure you slow down.  Like making you sick -- it is that time of season as well. 

I know I have been trying to do a lot and I know that I feel completely drained.  Usually being tired, I still have this well that I can draw from.  Lately that well is DRY.  That's a good indication that it's time to take time for you.  Replenish that well, in what ever way you can.

This card is also about trying to please others.  Take it from someone who knows, that never works out.  The only person you should worry about pleasing is you.  Once you're happy you can deal with all that other stuff and people.  Never please anyone that compromises you.  It's a hard habit to break if you keep doing it.  Be helpful and happy toward others, but don't ever compromise YOU.

Card for Monday, November 10, 2014

Feeling shattered is not grief or sadness from loss. It is a feeling of devastation or angst from misperceiving the true reality of a situation, and from not envisioning the abundance that is available to you.

Have you lost (or are you about to lose) something or someone, and your heart feels irreparably broken? Or do you feel angst because something or someone that is lost seems irreplaceable, and you think that life will never be good again?

The situation you are in - that is overwhelming you with pain - has probably triggered either a great loss from the past or an intense fear about something in the future - or both. This means that the situation you are in only plays a part of the devastation you are feeling. In reality, it is only your perception of the situation that is causing the pain or it’s because you are thinking about the past or future – not the present moment. It is likely that the thing or person you lost (or may lose) probably isn’t as important as you believe, or it is not as fulfilling as it once was - as we don’t lose what we are truly are meant to keep.

The pain may also be caused because you refuse to accept the ending or the loss of this special part of your life. You may even act desperate to try and get it back - believing this will end your pain. Or you may buckle under the weight of the pain and lay helpless on the ground. Refusing to accept ‘what is’, prevents you from dealing with change and the benefit the change is providing. And buckling keeps you from moving forward towards your true joy and purpose in life. Take all the time your heart needs to accept this loss, and release your feelings about the past or the future. This is better than avoiding it, denying it or trying to tough it out.

Now that you have accepted and released your feelings, begin to understand the benefits of feeling shattered. Start by shattering your fixed perception of your situation. Let go of limiting thoughts. Awaken to your soul’s deep needs, and bring awareness to the abundance of possibilities, and to what you truly desire. The ache for the person or thing you have lost is telling you how important this aspect of life is to you. Having this person or thing in your life may or may not be needed, but know those wonderful feelings that it created will definitely come again because this situation has woken a need in your heart that is supposed to get filled. Maybe not in the same manner, but filled in some other way or by someone else. Without doubt, your next experience will be fuller, richer and better than you can imagine!

I like to think of this card as the one that helps us to move and change our lives for the better.  Often change is a frightening things for most people.  So that's what this shattered feeling is like.  Given some distance you'll see that the step was necessary to move you along your path.

Card for Saturday, November 8, 2014

The journey of our lives tells a story. Consciously or unconsciously we choose the type of story we want to tell. You can tell happy or inspiring stories….or you can tell dark stories of tragedy and fear.

The stories we tell are based on our beliefs, desires, needs and expectations, and we will consciously or unconsciously act out our story to support these things.

Stories are the expressive creation of your mind and your soul. You have picked this card so you can stop and think about what kind of life story you are writing.

Here are some questions you could ask yourself about your life story: If my life were a book or movie, what would it be about? (you are all the characters and the writer.) Ask yourself – If I were watching a movie about my life, would I get up and walk out half way through? Or is my story captivating, inspiring, beautiful, loving and fun!

We chose our stories for some purpose. Ask yourself what that purpose is. What purpose do I have for writing the story I am living? What is the payoff? What is my need? What is my belief or expectation? What gift or opportunity stays hidden by this? What is this story allowing me to do or not do? Behind every event and experience, there is a need or want that is trying to get meet, and an expectation or belief that is being lived out. For example let’s explore what the hidden need/want is, or what the underlying belief or expectation is for the following scenario. Let’s say we want to provide a meaningful service but we aren’t. Is it because we are not ready yet because we need to build our skills or trust in our ability first? Or, do we expect failure and a lack of funding or support? Or,perhaps we believe we are not worthy of providing meaningful things. Or, maybe we don’t want to put in the time and effort after-all.

Perhaps you are living out a dark story. You came to a planet that is made up of light and dark…a place of contrast. Understand how you are benefiting from the dark….the dark contrast or the dark stories. Maybe you have chosen a dark story because you want to add excitement to your life. Maybe it’s because you want to tell ‘a rags to riches story’, ‘a disease to wellness story’, or ‘a villain turned hero story’! Remember; if it’s a Healing Story or a Heroic Story that you are telling , you need sickness, a villain or a victim . They don’t sound like such great stories after all, do they?.…not when you see them in that light! What if you unconsciously created a dark story of illness, disease or tragedy because you actually need to change your life…or you need/want to be cared for more… or you want to consciously or unconsciously end your life?
After you have come to understand why you have a dark story playing, you can change it by choosing a different script. For every little scene of the old dark story that plays out, you can say to yourself, ‘I don’t need or want this anymore. What I need/want is ____’.

You have within you, (and with the help of the universal energy of love, joy, creation and wisdom), the ability to change your story into anything you want. At every moment of your life, and every word in your script, you can choose a.…..Happy Story! A Love Story! Or… An Adventure Story!

Card for Friday, November 7, 2014

Fear is an emotion. Fear can alert us to the presence of danger, or we can feel fear when we image that something bad may happen. A response to fear is sometimes known as the “fight or flight” response, in which the body prepares itself to either enter combat or run away, yet another typical reaction, is to freeze in our tracks and do nothing. These responses can be necessary, but they can also be the result of thoughts that are not based on reality. In order to choose how to appropriately respond or re-‘act’ when we are feeling fear is to first decipher if the fear is real or imagined.

An example of the possibility of our fear being imagined is when we remember an experience from the past that was ‘bad’, and although it is extremely unlikely to reoccur, we imagine it happening again. Our fear is from the past, but it is projected onto the present or future. This may be a way of learning from our experiences, but it also may only be an unnecessary precaution if the ‘bad’ event is unlikely to occur. We need to decide if the fear is reasonable and logical or if it is unfounded and irrational.

If you decide that your fear is imagined, you can dissolve it by bringing loving and positive thoughts into the situation. Or you can fully surrender to the fear, letting it run freely - right through you - until it is gone, leaving you with feelings of love, trust, joy, faith or peace.

If fear isn’t just imagined, it means we can use fear to help protect and advise us. Fear makes us aware of situations and things that could harm us, and it helps us to avoid painful or stressful experiences. Fear can also prevent us from making hasty decisions. We can be thankful for what fear has come to do, and to let it be a guiding friend in our lives.

The card Fear is asking you to understand or intuitively feel if fear is holding you back from success and happiness, or if fear has come to keep you safe. Until you reach full spiritual, emotional and intellectual mastery, fear will either be a hindrance, a necessary guide, or an internal radar to keep you from harm. Know that the more you mature (the more you grow and evolve) the less fear you will experience!

Card for Thursday, November 6, 2014

Your Card - “Play Time!” - “The dolphins know the importance of playing, as joy creates miracles and manifestation.”

When this card comes up it means you've been straining and working too hard and have lost your initial focus you had.  You're striving more out of habit than out of a clear direction.  So, stop.  Time to shake things up.. that serious side you've been doing.  Time to be silly and to have fun.  This will not only break things up for you  and regain perspective on what's important and what is not.

Plus if you play outside you not only get that creative spark going again, you also get oxygen to help the process grow.

So go do something fun.. and soon!

Card for Wednesday, November 5, 2014

Today's card is all about grounding yourself to help you focus in creating the new life for yourself.  Look at the colors in the card.. browns, oranges to pinks.  Browns are for the grounding.  Think of this as a flower with roots going down to the ground.  You would do the same thing except you would go a lot further.  I like going through the whole earth.  Kind of like those old cartoons that talked about digging to China :)  Then that energy comes back up to you.

The orange is tied to your sacral chakra.  It often referrers to new ideas and abundance.  Things are changing for you and this will be one of the first areas affected.

The second is the light yellow you see.  That's tied to  your solar plexus and is the core of who  you are.  It is the bringer of new ideas and joy.

This color pink represents a new love and sensual being.  Now sensual can just mean that you're enjoying life where before you might have been just "being".

The diamond shapes represent you moving forward and being fearless and protected in all that you do.  You are becoming a wonderful spiritual being and should be happy with what is coming your way.  You are transforming to a even more beautiful lightworker.

Starting something new

I had my website up for awhile now (www.healingbyharmonize.com) that offered various psychic services to people.  But then I started writing a book and was thinking of putting up another website for selling the book(s).  Then I started looking at doing voice over work as well.  I thought what? another website? 

So I revamped my site.  It now contains all the information.  This way I have one website that allows those individuals who want psychic services can get it, who want to get my book when I finish it, they can there as well as listen to examples of my voice over work. (still working on getting the demos together).

So one of the things I've done with the voice over is get evaluated.  Many places offer this service but the ones I've seen start at $100.  Except for one.  I got to be evaluated for $20.  Cheap!  But they also didn't pressure me to buy their services either.  It was truly an evaluation of the voice.  I appreciate that, as I'm a single income with 3 special needs kids in an old house.

The nice thing is I do e-learning voice-over for my regular work.  Have now for 3-5 years.  So the person evaluating me told me I had a presence that some people don't have.  He even gave me pointers to help propel me along even further.  I was very happy with this feedback.

I keep adding things in my mix to try and do to help supplement my income.  It's hard to do when a good portion of your day is at work or in a car going to and from work.  But these types of things I love to do.  If I didn't, they wouldn't be part of my website.

I wrote about this because I want people to understand where I' coming from and that you too can work toward your dreams.  It just takes small steps to make that big leap.  Also the faith that things will come your way when they are supposed to so that you can continue on the path.

So, a new thing I'm looking at, is something with my soul sister.  Either web videos or podcasts where we work on you being "The Authentic Spiritual You".  We both have gone through similar yet different things in our spiritual path.  We both believe that we can help others along theirs.   So keep an eye out for it.  You might eventually see it on the website.

Card for Tuesday, November 4, 2014

Pulled again from my New Oracle Cards - The Light Within for today's card.  It's happiness.  Oh just have to LOVE this card.  There is a period of happiness coming to you.  If it hasn't already started. 

This card represents to me a party.  All the colors and if there was music it would be something you could dance to -- why? Because it's representative of happiness.  I know when I'm happy, I kind of bounce along and spread sunshine where ever I can.  I also love listening to music and it just make me sunshiny inside as well.

So take time and keep working on being grateful for things in your life and this new found happiness that you have that you can keep the positive going in your life.

Card for Monday, November 3, 2014

I decided to use my new cards today for the card draw.  You can view them on www.healingsbyharmonize.com -- just look under Psychic Services.  My cards are finished, just getting printed so I can start selling them, but I felt drawn to use them for today's reading.

Today's card is Healing Light.  God is all around us and inside of us.  For those of you that don't believe in "God" .. then think the universal energy.  I felt drawn to this card today because I think there's been so much negative energy and things going on in the world that we need to remind ourselves of this healing that is going on.  We have to be willing to accept it and then spread it to others to keep the healing process going. 

Sometimes we are so plugged into technology that we forget to unplug and just be as well.  I'm guilty of that as well.  But today would be a good day to go out and breathe in the nice cold crisp fall/winter (for those of us in the USA) air.   Stand on the ground while you can, before the snow hits.  Really get grounded and let that healing energy into your being.  It can only help you.  Take that moment today because we are starting to gear up for all the holidays and madness that won't stop until January.

I wish for all of you today peace and love.

Card for Sunday, November 2, 2014

Faith is trust. Faith is using your mind to help you imagine that everything will turn out for the best. Use your imagination to see, feel and trust that everything will turn out at the highest level to bring you happiness, abundance and love. Have faith in the situation, in yourself, and in life’s creative energy. Worrying, is the absence of faith. When you trust, only then can you put all the doubts and fears in your mind aside.

Trust can also help you when you are torn between two different options. Trust that the right choice will present itself in time. Trust the timing, and trust the process as it unfolds. Faith means waiting at times, and wisdom is using your time creatively and wisely while waiting for a decision, person, thing or opportunity to arrive.

Deep faith often develops after the ‘darkness of night’ --- where dreams were delayed, lost treasures were found or replaced, and challenges were successfully met. Faith doesn’t exempt you from challenging times; faith is the additional resource to help you with them.
Have faith and certainty that your heart and soul’s deepest longings will come to you. Trust that what has been taken away from you no longer has value, because the treasures you truly need and the things that truly belong to you cannot possibly be lost or taken away.

Faith, is knowing that what your heart longs for is already on its way. The creative life source is in tune with your longings, and is already lining things up in the present for manifestation in the future. You can be thankful in advance. For instance, if someone were to give you a check for $1,000, would you wait until you cashed it in order to thank him or her? – No. – You'd go ahead and thank them because you knew you could cash it and the money was on its way. Know that what you long for is coming!

Faith is also taking risks. Now is the time in your life to absolutely trust. There is a tremendous sense of joy and accomplishment when we take the steps to enter a new world.

Faith is also giving when you don’t feel like you can afford to give. Giving and faith go together. It's one thing to give when you've got it to spare – it's another thing to give when you don't even know where the money, energy or love is going to come from. That is a test of faith – giving when you’re not sure you can.

Take care to make sure your faith is not ‘blind faith’. Blind faith is pretending that everything is all right – it is being in denial of reality.

Know that faith and trust can help you in your current situation. With trust, the highest potential opens up. Life is no longer mediocre, and life will start to overflow with magic! Where there is trust there is peace and fulfillment. Today consciously begin to trust others, yourself, and in the process as it unfolds to bring happiness, abundance and love!

Card for Saturday, November 1, 2014

Take a big deep breath in, and exhale a sigh of relief…because the time has come to rest.

Welcome an environment of peace and tranquility that will relax you and renew your spirit. Your sanctuary can be in the physical world or in your heart.

Rest in the comfort and love that awaits you in this sanctuary. Only invite the things that you know to be calming and beautiful, whether they are material things in your space, or they are loving and peaceful feelings in your heart and in your mind. Deeply surrender into the relaxation and comfort of the people you trust. Treat your whole self with gentleness and care, and take time to nurture your soul. It will soften your heart and bring you a sense of calm happiness and ease.

Your sanctuary is a place where there is no more effort or striving. It is the feeling of coming home after a long arduous journey. It’s sitting in the shade of a tree along side a creek after a long walk in the hot sun. It is time to rest and relax your body, your mind and your soul.

Sanctuary is a state of non-ambition and non-motivation. It is taking a break from being a unique individual. There is no desire to be exceptional or important. This is a time to take a moment to be at ease - not trying to improve, not cultivating anything, not being cunning or calculating, and not practicing anything. Give yourself a break. Now is a very precious time for you to rest, there's nothing to do and nowhere to go. Imagine yourself floating gently down the stream on a beautiful sunny day; trusting that life will support your need for relaxation and take you exactly where you need to go.

Take a deep breath, let out a big sigh …because there is no need to do anything…………….but rest.

Card for Friday, October 31, 2014

Happy Halloween (for those that celebrate).  Interesting card we have today.

Fear is an emotion. Fear can alert us to the presence of danger, or we can feel fear when we image that something bad may happen. A response to fear is sometimes known as the “fight or flight” response, in which the body prepares itself to either enter combat or run away, yet another typical reaction, is to freeze in our tracks and do nothing. These responses can be necessary, but they can also be the result of thoughts that are not based on reality. In order to choose how to appropriately respond or re-‘act’ when we are feeling fear is to first decipher if the fear is real or imagined.

An example of the possibility of our fear being imagined is when we remember an experience from the past that was ‘bad’, and although it is extremely unlikely to reoccur, we imagine it happening again. Our fear is from the past, but it is projected onto the present or future. This may be a way of learning from our experiences, but it also may only be an unnecessary precaution if the ‘bad’ event is unlikely to occur. We need to decide if the fear is reasonable and logical or if it is unfounded and irrational.

If you decide that your fear is imagined, you can dissolve it by bringing loving and positive thoughts into the situation. Or you can fully surrender to the fear, letting it run freely - right through you - until it is gone, leaving you with feelings of love, trust, joy, faith or peace.

If fear isn’t just imagined, it means we can use fear to help protect and advise us. Fear makes us aware of situations and things that could harm us, and it helps us to avoid painful or stressful experiences. Fear can also prevent us from making hasty decisions. We can be thankful for what fear has come to do, and to let it be a guiding friend in our lives.

The card Fear is asking you to understand or intuitively feel if fear is holding you back from success and happiness, or if fear has come to keep you safe. Until you reach full spiritual, emotional and intellectual mastery, fear will either be a hindrance, a necessary guide, or an internal radar to keep you from harm. Know that the more you mature (the more you grow and evolve) the less fear you will experience!

Card for Thursday, October 30, 2014

The journey of our lives tells a story. Consciously or unconsciously we choose the type of story we want to tell. You can tell happy or inspiring stories….or you can tell dark stories of tragedy and fear.

The stories we tell are based on our beliefs, desires, needs and expectations, and we will consciously or unconsciously act out our story to support these things.

Stories are the expressive creation of your mind and your soul. You have picked this card so you can stop and think about what kind of life story you are writing.

Here are some questions you could ask yourself about your life story: If my life were a book or movie, what would it be about? (you are all the characters and the writer.) Ask yourself – If I were watching a movie about my life, would I get up and walk out half way through? Or is my story captivating, inspiring, beautiful, loving and fun!

We chose our stories for some purpose. Ask yourself what that purpose is. What purpose do I have for writing the story I am living? What is the payoff? What is my need? What is my belief or expectation? What gift or opportunity stays hidden by this? What is this story allowing me to do or not do? Behind every event and experience, there is a need or want that is trying to get meet, and an expectation or belief that is being lived out. For example let’s explore what the hidden need/want is, or what the underlying belief or expectation is for the following scenario. Let’s say we want to provide a meaningful service but we aren’t. Is it because we are not ready yet because we need to build our skills or trust in our ability first? Or, do we expect failure and a lack of funding or support? Or,perhaps we believe we are not worthy of providing meaningful things. Or, maybe we don’t want to put in the time and effort after-all.

Perhaps you are living out a dark story. You came to a planet that is made up of light and dark…a place of contrast. Understand how you are benefiting from the dark….the dark contrast or the dark stories. Maybe you have chosen a dark story because you want to add excitement to your life. Maybe it’s because you want to tell ‘a rags to riches story’, ‘a disease to wellness story’, or ‘a villain turned hero story’! Remember; if it’s a Healing Story or a Heroic Story that you are telling , you need sickness, a villain or a victim . They don’t sound like such great stories after all, do they?.…not when you see them in that light! What if you unconsciously created a dark story of illness, disease or tragedy because you actually need to change your life…or you need/want to be cared for more… or you want to consciously or unconsciously end your life?
After you have come to understand why you have a dark story playing, you can change it by choosing a different script. For every little scene of the old dark story that plays out, you can say to yourself, ‘I don’t need or want this anymore. What I need/want is ____’.

You have within you, (and with the help of the universal energy of love, joy, creation and wisdom), the ability to change your story into anything you want. At every moment of your life, and every word in your script, you can choose a.…..Happy Story! A Love Story! Or… An Adventure Story!

Card for Wednesday, October 29, 2014

We all need to nurture and be nurtured - whether or not we give ourselves permission. The card Nurture refers to nurturing the emotional, physical, social and spiritual self.

Socially

We are social creatures, so it is important to build and nurture our relationships. Take the time to go for lunch with a friend, to go on a date with your beloved, or a weekend away with the girls/guys.

Spiritually

Nurture your spiritual-self as well. Journal, meditate, take time alone in nature, or go to a retreat to journey into your spiritual-self.

Physically

Touch is an important aspect of nurturing – in both giving and receiving. It is a way of communicating affection, passion, care, support and love. We all like to be touched in varying ways and amounts. Therefore when touching another, it is best to be mindful of how, when and where the other person likes to be touched. Be sensitive to the other person’s level of comfort. And for others to truly feel nurtured, give without expectations of reciprocation.

Eating healthy, movement, hygiene, sleep and relaxation are other aspects of nurturing your body. You may have pulled this card to remind yourself to nurture these aspects of your physical being. Heal any physical wounds that you may have been ignoring.
Also you may have forgotten to give your mind the necessary nourishment of intellectual exercise. Remember to find ways to stimulate your brain. Take a class, read a challenging book, write an article for your local paper..etc.


Emotionally

Nurturing your emotional body includes honoring your childlike joy and wonder, along with accepting and your hurt, fears and frustrations. Sit quietly and connect with how you truly feel inside, giving yourself full compassion and support. Feel the all parts of yourself that still need love, understanding and a sense of joy and happiness. Share your feelings with a trusted friend or partner without blame or judgement. Blaming someone for negative feelings and trying to get them to fix it only distracts you from recognizing the opportunity to expand peace, love, learning and happiness. Having someone listen can be truly nurturing. Emotional health comes when someone close to you witnesses your tears of joy and your challenges, and listens with genuine interest and compassion - without judgement or advice. You can only cultivate nurturing in your relationships when you are fully capable of feeling and accepting your feelings. If you are not comfortable with exuberant joy or fear, it is very hard to accept these emotions in others.

It is time to nurture. When you nurture your whole self and others, you will improve your health, happiness, and your relationships!

Very interesting drive last night

On my way home last night from work, it was actually light for a change and there were lovely looking clouds.  I have a long commute and I was pretty tired from working late last week to working over the weekend and then doing training yesterday and I guess I'm more open when tired?  My ego doesn't get into the way.

I looked up at the clouds and the first "image" I received was an eagle.  I thought that was nice.  I then looked up and saw a dragonfly.   As I kept looking up I kept seeing other things, like reeds and cotton.

So I made a point to try and look up what each of these images were on the internet "spiritually".  This is what I found:

Eagle - timing, victory and spiritual quest

Dragonfly - change and transformation, adaptability, joy and lightness of being

Reeds - Purpose, Protection, Purification, Clarification, and communication

Cotton in the field being ready to be harvested - good and prosperous times

To me these are all really good messages.  I know I've been working on my manifesting in all sorts of different ways.  So maybe this was a sign it's coming.   I'd love it to be sure.

I seriously thought something was coming my way, when I was contacted by an internet company about hosting a radio show.  The bad news is I would have to put money into it and I don't have that right now.  But it put the thought into my head.  I could do that.

I've also gotten both my chapters with my book back after editing that is about my kids.  Now I just have to finish the last chapters to get it finally finished.  I had a name picked out and even an image, but now I'm changing it and have a good idea of what the book is going to be.

I got my oracle cards finally formatted.  They're off to the printers to be printed.  I'm also working on the book to go with it.  Plus another book that have my healing mandalas along with positive affirmations.

So basically a lot going on.  I keep getting nudges but I have to actually be well and not busy with real life to work on these things, so hopefully that will help soon.

Just thought I'd share ;)