Tuesday, August 26, 2014
There are also those special people that we choose to journey with for a life time which we call soul mates or life partners. This card will help you to realize the aspects of what makes a soul relationship healthy, mature, compatible and loving. Finding your soul mate or life mate is only as easy or hard, as finding your soul! As you understand your soul’s needs and desires, you will naturally attract a suitable mate.
Soul mates will be on a path that is complimentary with one another. Their dreams, vision, spiritual beliefs and goals will be compatible. When they are dating, they will ask the other person questions to learn about their mind, heart and soul. They will find out what they do, how they feel, what's going on in their heads, ask about their families, their work, beliefs, values, dreams, goals, etc. Soul mates would be comfortable and happy with the answer to the question; “What are the five most important things in my mate’s life?” Soul mates will take the time to get to know one another. Soul mates actually like each other - not just love and want one another. Many times people who are infatuated, or in love with love, do not even LIKE the person they've attached their ‘in love’ feelings to. Mature people don't live in a romantic fantasy.
Soul mates are comfortable with the other person’s values and beliefs, and they like the way the other person looks, feels, smells, sounds and tastes. They aren’t disgusted or embarrassed by each other’s actions or how their mate relates to others. There are no ominous feelings of dread lingering in their minds about one another.
Soul mates are equals. They don’t consider themselves better or worse than the one they love. They have equal admiration, respect and care for one another, and they respect each other’s gifts, personality and lifestyle.
Soul mates are in tune with their own soul and won’t lose their identity. They won’t try to be like the other person or try to change their partner. Soul mates will be able to see the beautiful essence within one another, along with their imperfections. They will feel safe and free to be all that they are. They feel safe together, and they will both feel supported and valued. Soul mates feel safe to open up and reveal their true self; what they think, believe and feel, and they let the other do the same. They each feel heard, understood and accepted. They share their secrets, fears, feelings and thoughts with one another without the fear of being judged. They both listen to each other with an open heart, and have a desire to understand and learn from each other. They both have a feeling of ‘being at home’ with one another. They each have the freedom and comfort to really show all their weakness with each other, and they are both willing to support each other’s growth. Soul mates do not fear change, growth or aging. They welcome change as an opportunity to achieve greater intimacy, and to grow together in life - not apart. They will still love each other even if they lost their possessions or their looks!
Soul mates spend a lot of time together because they both really enjoy it, not because they don’t like being alone. Yet they have other friends and interests, and they are both fine when they are not together. Whether they are together or apart, they experience peace and joy in their soul. True love is based upon maturity, and a balance of dependence and independence. They are able to depend upon the other when appropriate and they can also stand on their own.
Soul mates are obvious to other people. Friends and family think you are a good match! They will also like each other’s friends …they fit in with the other mate’s friends.
Soul mates feel supported in pursuing what brings them joy, and their mate can feel joy for their joy. The two of them laugh and play together, and enjoy each other’s sense of humor. In the midst of difficulties, they help each other to lighten up with humor and playfulness. Soul mates enjoy being kind to one another, rather than having their own way or being right. They well up with warmth and fullness of heart for each other and express it with affection. The sexual relationship is warm and caring, and they can talk with each other about what brings them pleasure. Sex becomes better with each year together - as trust, familiarity and fondness deepens. True love arrives after many months or years of commitment and challenges, at which the needs of the other become as important as the needs of the self.
Together, soul mates will make it in the long run because they are both committed to the idea of being a team. They see themselves stronger together, than apart. They will endure any hardships or challenges. Their love is solid even in very difficult times. They feel safe and secure with each other, and they trust one another. They each know that they can mess up, fail, disappoint and hurt the other – and the love will still be there. Soul mates have compatible ways to resolve conflict, and they both can easily let go of any anger or hurt and move quickly back into kindness and affection.
It is also valuable to know that we are attracted to and love people who we don’t particularly admire. These souls are our greatest teachers who can help our souls to grow. If you realize that your relationship or potential relationship isn’t up to par, reflect on your own characteristics and qualities first before tossing the relationship aside. Do you admire all aspects of your being? If you and your mate are dedicated to growth, and both of your strengths and weakness score equally, then the relationship has the potential to be a good fit.
A way to gain more insight into choosing your life mate is to ask these two questions.
1. If we were to have a son/daughter would I want him/her to grow to be just like my mate?
2. If we had a son/daughter would I want him/her to grow up to be just like me?
If you answered no on the first question but answered yes on the second question, he/she is probably not a healthy choice for a mate. If you answered no on the first and second question, you may have more growing to do before you are really able to have a fulfilling and expansive relationship. If you answered yes to both, you are probably ready for a healthy and loving journey together.
You have chosen the soul mate card so you can take an in-depth look into what a soul mate relationship looks like. Choose with an open and wise heart!
Note: you can apply this card in choosing your soul sisters and brothers too, and you can also use it to help you become aware of what you can change in order to become a worthy mate!
Monday, August 25, 2014
It is a time of unrestricted dreams and opportunities.
You are filled with ease and joy, and you have the freedom to create a life designed by your hearts longings!
You see freedom as the truth that all of life is a blessing or an opportunity for transformation.
You no longer feel trapped, stressed, worried, miserable or burdened. You are free! You accept yourself, your situation and everyone involved.
You feel your emotions fully, and you open up to explore new ideas, different choices, perspectives, attitudes and new ways of thinking.
You allow yourself to experience freedom, and give others their freedom. You do not disconnect from others with defiant independence, but instead you create the joy of freedom in your soul that attracts other ‘light-filled’ mates to you.
Your freedom is based on truth - truth that separates illusion from reality. The truth can be uncomfortable because it cuts through denial, but it will save you from further disillusionment and pain in the future. At the highest level - anything that is not joyful is not the truth. Truth frees you from the dark and brings in light and true fulfillment.
The card Freedom says that your difficulties are all falling away so you can experience happiness, clarity and growth. Feel the freedom of living your life the way you really want to and to share it with the people you truly feel joyful to be with!
Friday, August 22, 2014
Nice cards for the weekend. Time to take your life into your hands. Make sure you have equal give and take in all of your relationships. Now as a mother, I know that's kind of hard to do with the kids, but you can still have them help you out in different way. I have my kids work on folding or picking up toys etc. To me every little bit helps.
Now as far as the affirmations... this is different than gratitudes. Affirmations are statements to yourself on how you want your life to be. I am wealthy. I am healthy. I am happy. I am vibrant. I know what I want and get it.
What ever you do, don't put "negatives" or "not sure" statements. For example, I am out of debt versus I am not in debt. Our brain works weird in that it doesn't recognize that Not.. so if you took that out.. you're basically saying I am in debt. So make sure you are doing positive statements.
I'm working on some little subliminal videos that hopefully will be done soon so I can share with people. I use a lot of positive statements .. not only in the images, but in the subliminal part as well.
So make use of this energy coming to us. For me I felt it last night and it feels like it probably will be here until Tues. To me it's an energy that will shake things up. Just make sure it's a good shake and not bad :D
Thursday, August 21, 2014
OK it looks like they're saying it's time to make a new break and add fun to your life. What ever it may be. :)
For me, I just got a new workout series on DVD and it's all about toning while dancing. I'm pretty sure my back won't take it very well, I figured I love to dance and so I'm going to give this a try and see how it helps. I may even get my eldest to do it with me. Dancing for me is fun and I don't do it as often as I should.
So how can you start something in your life that will be fun but also be good for you and your family? Or maybe it's the start of school that is going to put a hop in your step :D
Wednesday, August 20, 2014
“Peace of Mind” - Make peacefulness your highest priority. Commit to taking steps to ensure peace of mind, and take those steps without delay.
“Ten of Fire” - You’re working too hard and have put in too many hours. There’s a need to balance the professional and personal sides of your life. You’re trying to do too much. A good first step is to be willing to accept assistance from others.
Again, drawn to pull two cards for today. Peace and doing too much. So they're basically telling us that we need to slow down, let some things go and work on bringing peace to our mind and world.
This is sooo me right now. I'm busy at work trying to finish a course. My house is a pit and the basement a shambles from the mold remediation. My back is hurting so I can't do things and I seem to go in these circles.
So I guess I need to really take a breath. Work on tackling one thing at a time and letting go of the others. How about you? You ready to find some peace of mind?
Tuesday, August 19, 2014
I was drawn to pull two cards for today. Both very empowering cards. The first is the Clairaudience. All this means is "hearing". Whether it be that voice inside of your or a message you hear on the radio/TV or even a song that may tell you a message that's going on with you. I've had this happen a lot. Of course unless you're looking for it, you may miss it completely. But if that message is important for you to hear the angels will make sure it will get across to you. So this card is basically telling you to be more aware about the messages they're trying to tell you. Keep an open mind for it, because I know from personal experience, what message we get about a situation may not be the one we were hoping for. We just have to realize we don't see the whole picture and they do, so take their guidance as what's it's meant to be.
The second card is POWER. This card is here to show you that you have the strength to get through a situation and you can pull it up at anytime. The other thing it tells us is that because of your strength of surviving things you are showing others how to do that as well. This is a very loving card as well. To embrace that which is natural to you and show others how to be strong when they may not know how. Breaking a cycle and taking a stand. You will get through this and survive.
Monday, August 18, 2014
“Balance Work, Rest and Play” - Yellow Rose: It’s important for you to have fun along with fulfilling your responsibilities.
First off, I'm not a "rose" person per se, but out of all of them, yellow roses are my favorite. Maybe I should get some to have around to help me perk up.
I'm am terrible at this card. It only gets worse when I haven't been sleeping. Which I haven't been lately due to my back. It's better than it was last year, but when I am sleeping, I'm sleeping very hard and I end up sleeping funny or on my arm or something and then my body seems to know I should turn, but it's not "automatic" anymore, where I lightly wake up to do it. Now it's PAIN when I try and it wakes me up. Doing that multiple times in the night has not helped. So the "rest" of this card has not been happening, no matter what I'd like. Of course that then merges into the "play" aspect as well. If I'm very tired, I don't play, I do what needs to be done (work) first. Because it has to get done for the kids. I wish I had the energy to work on the play aspect. Anyone want to come work on my house so I can? :D
So this card for me, is so on point. Going to figure out how to get some sleep so I can not only do the work that needs to be done, but also play.
How does this card fit you lately? Pretty much the same?